Our outer beauty can only go so far. When we are young, it is easier. The older we become, and as our physical body begins to break down, the less physically attractive we may become, depending on the perspective and sight of the beholder. Sure, we can have surgeries and spend money on looking young again. We can eat right and exercise and take phenomenal care of our appearance. This isn’t the attractiveness I want to focus on now.
If we want to attract financial success into our lives, we must become more attractive. We can learn ways to become more valuable and attractive to others, financially, for ourselves. By becoming more of anything of value, we become more attractive. (There are many great tools and resources to learn more about being financially fit. Researching Dave Ramsey, Tony Robbins, Ray Dalio, and Jim Rohn on the internet is incredibly valuable and useful. I highly recommend putting their names into YouTube, and checking them out.)
When we become stronger, wiser, and better at ANYTHING, through skill acquisition and practice, we become like a magnet, attracting things, people, circumstances, synchronicities, and situations into our lives, because of what we have become. Hard work and consistency creates a conversion, and a convergence, of synchronized circumstances, which benefit us and those around us.
If we want to attract love into our lives, we must become more attractive, by BEING LOVE. That which we put out into the Universe always comes back to us. We don’t just attract that which we focus on or become into our physical realm-WE ATTRACT MORE OF WHO AND WHAT WE ARE.
We can learn new ways, tips, tricks, skills, and strategies to become a more attractive love interest. For things to change for us, we must change. For things to improve for us, we must improve. By becoming more of anything of value, we become more attractive. (I highly recommend researching Melody Beattie, Jay Shetty, Relationship Theory, and Love Line with Adam Carolla and Dr Drew on YouTube. There are many fun, entertaining, and effective ways to learn more helpful tools about being and attracting more love and healing into our lives.)
If we want to attract spirituality into our lives, we become more attractive, spiritually. We make a study of it, and learn how to become more spiritual. We can adopt the beliefs, routines, and habits of others who are spiritually enlightened. What we practice, we get better at. Mentors can be incredibly helpful, even if the only advice we get from them is from a book or a YouTube video.
By becoming more of anything of value, we become more attractive. We cannot be what we cannot see. (Jay Shetty’s interview on Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu opened my eyes to new possibilities where spirituality is concerned. There are unlimited resources available to us about spiritual growth.)
In order to attract anything we want into our lives to make it more beautiful, fulfilling, meaningful, and successful in any way, we must become more attractive, in those ways. We become like a strong magnet. We work hard at what and who it is that we want to be more of. We make a study of what and who we want to become. ENERGY FLOWS WHERE ATTENTION GOES. What we focus on, WE FEED, and that which we energize comes to us to be fed and energized even more. By becoming more of anything of value, we become more attractive.
How do we become more attractive and desirable? We work on ourselves. We change and improve our mindset, philosophy, and belief systems. We continue to learn and grow and progress. We upgrade our habits and daily practices.
We attract more of what we focus on into our lives. The reason for this is the RAS.
In your life, what were the times you progressed the most? How did you feel afterwards? What words describe the feelings you had at this time in your life?
When we know exactly what we want, and exactly who we want to be a year from now, we know what we need to do each day to accomplish it. Goals, daily routines, and consistency are key in our becoming more attractive.
I love Maya Angelou’s quotes.
Today’s challenge for myself: Today I will work towards improving myself in some way in order to become more attractive to the thing(s) I want to attract into my life.
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