November 26: CONSISTENCY

Consistency in Congruence Creates Credibility, Confidence, Competence, and Contribution.

Consistency creates a conversion and a convergence of circumstances which, when they all come together, cause exponentially increased personal growth.

When we are able to pick and choose the most important things in life, and focus and act upon those things with consistency, directing ALL our energy, time, attention, and focus towards ONLY those things, magic begins to happen.





When we are consistent, it seems like everything is unfolding so perfectly, and the stars always seem to align so perfectly that everything just works out for us.  In reality, through the habit and practice of consistency, we have become predictable, reliable, and dependable, and we naturally and easily attract all of the people, things, situations, and circumstances into our reality that makes it seem this way.

We call it synchronicity, but actually it is simply what we DESERVE.  We usually get what we have earned and deserve through our consistent practices, habits, and behaviors.

Think about it:  Would you rather work with someone who is consistent, who you always know what to expect from, who is predictable, reliable, and dependable, or would you prefer to work with someone who is inconsistent, unpredictable, not reliable, who you can’t depend upon and that you never know what to expect from?

If we don’t know what we want clearly and consistently enough to consistently work towards IT, how is IT supposed to consistently work towards US?

When there is congruence between what we say we are going to do and what we actually do, our confidence grows.  This is how we build credibility with ourselves.  When we keep promises to ourselves and others, we earn and deserve respect from ourselves and others, and our confidence and trust continues to grow.

Consistency creates credibility.  It creates credibility with ourselves and with others.  The more consistently we accomplish our goals and complete daily routines, the more confidence we gain in ourselves, and the more confidently people feel about us, the more they will trust us.  We see ourselves in a different light, and others look at us differently, too.  We are more accomplished, and more capable of adding value to our lives and to the lives of others.  We become more predictable and more comfortable to be around.

The more credibility and confidence we gain, the more competent we are.  As we DO more, we experience, learn, and become capable of contributing more.  Doors open up for us that have never been opened before and we are exposed to new experiences and new opportunities.  Circumstances converge.  The Universe conspires on our behalf more than ever before.

It is through consistency that synchronicity becomes commonplace in our lives,

because through consistency,

we become predictable, reliable, and dependable.

  Life is a beautiful struggle, full of pain and joy.  As we work daily to improve consistency, congruence, credibility, competence, confidence, and our level of contribution, life becomes easier, more beautiful, and more enjoyable.  We become more impactful and influential.  As we work hard, acquire and practice new skills, and learn more, we create a life with less pain, the therefore, experiencing less suffering.

If we are to do but ONE thing, consistently, a great start would be to simply make the bed each morning after we crawl out of it to attack the day.

Today I will remember to be consistent.  Consistency in Congruence Creates Credibility, Confidence, Competence, and Contribution.  I will (if I haven’t already) set a daily routine in place, which will empower me to accomplish the goals I have for three years from now and I will keep at it.

For ideas on useful, effective, empowering, helpful daily practices, please see, or google, The goodinthehead Habit Hacking Challenge.

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Remember:  Mindset matters.  Character counts.  That which we choose to consistently focus on is what EXPANDS in our lives.  WE CREATE our realities.

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