“We don’t attract what we WANT-that comes from a place of lack and missing. We attract more of WHAT WE ARE.”
-Dr. Wayne Dyer
Hurt people hurt other people.
Mad, angry people want to make others mad and angry.
Those who feel dejected, defeated, purposeless, or rejected, think others deserve to feel as they do.
We have all heard, “Misery loves company.”
The opposite is also true!
Healed and healing people tend to heal others.
Loved people love others.
Appreciated individuals love to express appreciation to others.
Happiness, peace, kindness, empathy, acceptance, and LOVE, all love and enjoy company, as well.
What we put out into the universe will be attracted back to us. The opposite of what we put out there will react like water and oil. They will constantly be repelled away from one another and desire to stay separate. Like attracts like. Enough light will seemingly replace darkness. Enough LOVE will displace the fear. ALL of it is important, and experiencing all of it has purpose and is useful.
This physical reality in which we live is made up of energies that are constantly either attracted towards or repelled from one another. Each thought we think emits a frequency in the form of pulsating, magnetic energies that interacts with these limitless, invisible energies, and in this way, EACH AND EVERY THOUGHT IS A CREATION. We literally create our realities through the thoughts we think, the emotions we feel, the actions we choose to take, and HOW WE INTERACT AND BELIEVE ABOUT THE RESULTS. The meanings and definitions we assign to EVERYTHING are SO IMPORTANT. We attract and repel things, people, circumstances, and situations into and out of our lives CONSTANTLY, allowing us the opportunities to interact with them. EVERYTHING is information, telling us how we can experiment differently for different results.
THE QUALITY OF OUR THOUGHTS DETERMINE THE QUALITY OF OUR LIVES.
Fortunately, we are in total control of the thoughts we choose to think and what we choose to allow to enter into, and stay inside of, our minds.
Advertisers, the news, content providers, technology, books, movies, the entertainment industry, and MANY people, wish to program and influence our minds in ways that would trigger us into actions and over-reactions that will benefit THEM, rather than us, but the fact remains that WE are in control of our minds, and therefore WE are responsible for our choices, our interactions, our responses, and the outcomes within our lives.
Reminder to self:
BOMBARD YOUR BRAIN with what you DO WANT to focus on, experience, perpetuate, manifest, project, and create. That which we choose to repeatedly focus on will EXPAND in our life! This one thing, practiced consistently enough, over time, will be the tool used, and the vehicle taken, to alter the trajectory of our life forever, empowering not only us, but all who surround us and are attracted to us. Our grandchildren’s grandchildren will benefit from this. Keep at it.
We must be MORE of what we want to attract.
Let go and let BE.
No judgements. No criticisms. Be open to ALL things, and attached to NO thing.
Empty ALL that which is within and create space for LOVE to enter, and fill all voids.
Wayne Dyer gives a BEAUTIFUL metaphor of THE ORANGE. He asks what comes out of an orange when it is squeezed. ONLY orange juice. No mistakes. Never mango, pineapple, or apple juice-ONLY orange juice. Why? Because that is what is INSIDE.
Then, he extends the metaphor to humans. What comes out of US when WE are squeezed? How do we react or respond when people laugh at us, tease us, or bully us? How do we behave when our boss or spouse abuses us in a moment of weakness or frustration, or when our children cause us stress? The ONLY thing that comes out of US, when we are squeezed, is what is inside.
Today I will treat others the way I want to be treated. I will do to and for others, that which I want done to me. I will always be mindful of what comes out of me when I am squeezed, and if it is ANYTHING but LOVE, I know there is work to be done, within.
After years of listening to content, reading books, and researching alternate, better ways of BEING, I discovered Tom Campbell, and some of his discourses on BECOMING LOVE. Plug his name into YouTube for the secrets of success in BECOMING LOVE.
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Remember: Mindset matters. Character counts. That which we choose to consistently focus on is what EXPANDS in our lives. WE CREATE our personal realities.